Shy by Design

May 13, 2024
Readers can embrace their quiet side to live happier and more fulfilled lives, according to this savvy debut guide from career coach Thompson. Plagued since childhood by a stutter and debilitating social anxiety, the author pursued a career in sales to challenge those fears and rose through the ranks once he reframed his “perceived” weaknesses as strengths. Sharing lessons gleaned along the way, Thompson recommends that readers stop faking “bullet-proof confidence” and instead approach others with kindness and honesty; expand personal and professional networks by strengthening ties with acquaintances and colleagues; and learn from others’ communication styles and strategies. Thompson gears the advice largely toward professional development, with much talk of “optimizing” connections that might eventually yield career opportunities, and he strikes an effective balance between empowering readers to embrace their shyness and encouraging them to venture outside their comfort zones. It’s a solid resource for young professionals looking to break out of their shells.

July 12, 2024

Once an introvert who felt hampered by his stutter, Thompson worked with, instead of against, his challenges to become a successful career coach and communications adviser. In this book, he offers guidance for other introverts on making the most of their unique strengths and preferences. Among the highlights are Thompson's guidance on learning to network, asserting leadership, using everyday interactions to improve public speaking skills, and discovering how the traits of shyness can be harnessed to create powerful interpersonal connections. It's an encouraging and relatable read, as Thompson reveals his own struggles and successes and includes anecdotes from his students as well. The book clearly breaks down the elements of successful social interactions, making this a helpful resource for readers who are often overwhelmed by in-the-moment discourse. Thompson's work is a perfect fit for those who dislike traditional networking and are seeking motivating tips and exercises to help them achieve their life and career goals. VERDICT An encouraging read for anyone looking to hone their listening and observational skills while staying true to their own needs and abilities.

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